For our second Thanksgiving as a married couple, we spent the day at my parent’s house in Maryland eating, taking a walk outside, visiting my grandmother in Baltimore, and watching football. Although this is a secular holiday, Keith’s family and my family still celebrate it fairly differently. For instance:
Meal start time: Keith’s family—6 p.m. My family—2 p.m. I personally think 6 p.m. makes more sense!
Food: Both serve turkey and mashed potatoes, but Keith’s family serves soup as a starter and doesn’t serve pumpkin pie. (And they serve brisket in addition to the turkey.) Overall, I think their meal is lighter than my family’s. What surprised me the most last year is that they don’t serve pumpkin pie! I wrongly assumed that it’s a Thanksgiving staple just as much as turkey. Also, they don’t serve green bean casserole, which I changed last year when I went up there. I baked the casserole from scratch, since my brother-in-law and sister-in-law are strictly kosher and I could not use store-bought mushroom soup (kosher laws nix mixing meat and dairy). I made a cream of mushroom soup using soy milk instead of real milk, which was okay, but a bit runny. My goal is to perfect it next year.
Wine: Keith’s family—yes. My family—we each had one glass of prosecco, which was new. I personally think that family gatherings are usually better with alcohol.
Football: Yes to both. In fact, my dad loves when Keith comes over so they can talk about the Jets, Redskins, and Ravens, since my sister and I are only half-hearted football fans. I like that they can bond over that.
Prayer or blessing before meal: Keith’s family—no. My family—yes. Keith says that religion was never a part of Thanksgiving for his family growing up. When we’re at my parent’s house, my dad always leads us in a traditional pre-meal Catholic blessing, followed by a free-form prayer that includes things that he is thankful for. Keith said that was one thing that surprised him about our Thanksgiving dinner–the fact that we incorporated religion into it. To me, it was always understood that thanking God went hand-in-hand with Thanksgiving.
That’s about it for now, since my food coma is setting in. As my nephew said to me earlier today, “Happy Gobble Gobble Day”!